Men dating little boys
But arguments are about finding middle ground, not about coming out on top.And a grown-up man knows there’s no way to win an argument with a woman, anyway. You’re an independent, 21st-century woman — you don’t need a man to pay your bills.Cleaning up his puke and dealing with his morning-after hangovers is going to get old fast.
He’s learned nothing from the past and has no plans for the future.This guy has an unrealistic and outdated idea of what it means to be a man.He thinks that unless everything is done on his terms, he’ll be perceived as weak-willed. Maybe it’s an old gender role, but men are expected to be reasonably handy. As long as it’s not interfering with his life, let the guy play.No, I’m talking about the kind of games when he’s fucking with your mind. He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met.If he can’t send you a simple text just to let you know he’s not dead or in jail, odds are he’s fucking with your head.When you ask a guy where he wants to go for dinner and he says something like, “I don’t care,” or “Wherever you want,” it’s usually true.He needs to know how to change a tire, mount a towel rack or at the very least, put together an IKEA bookshelf without bursting into tears.I’m all for going out and getting blasted every once in a while, but after college, it shouldn’t be the whole point of every night out.For whatever reason, he wants you to believe he has other options besides you and he makes sure you know about them.Some guys can be kind of emotionally closed off, and that shouldn’t be such a big deal.